Ejaculation Control – Why I Love Tantric Lovers

I’ve been exploring conscious sexuality for over 8 years now. Having different lovers who were (some of whom still are) helping me to explore, heal and expand my sexual being.

The thing is, these lovers are men and women who are highly skilled beings. Some more, some less, but I have noticed one outstanding thing that has really helped me move forward in my own sexuality.

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Ladies, This Is How You Help Your Man Last Longer


Ladies, have you ever had one of those soul shaking, hands curling up like t-rex arms, reality-shifting orgasms?  The kind where your vision turns into a solid color, you might be screaming, you’re not sure, or you might be entirely silent. Where you see yourself, truly, clearly. Or you see God. And you realize it’s one and the same. The everything and the nothing.

If so, Im willing to bet that when this happened, it didn’t happen in the snap of the fingers. It probably took some time to build up.

Clitoral orgasms can happen quickly, but to have a vaginal orgasm, women generally need 20+ minutes of stimulation. And to get to the level of soul shaking orgasms, women need a long time, perhaps 45 minutes or more.

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Discover the 24 Secrets Revealed During the Conscious Sexuality Summit

conscioussexualitysummitpost_headerAre you looking to level-up your love life, and infuse it with consciousness? Practise conscious sexuality for greater passion, fulfilment, and joy.

As many of you know, we held the Conscious Sexuality Summit in September 2016. And we thought it might be a tremendous idea to share the main takeaways and practices with you in the form of this article.

So no matter whether you participated in the summit – or just stumbled about this post – I’m sure it will be incredibly helpful. Read more

Why You Shouldn’t Keep Your Nose Out Of Your Love Life


“I could have licked his body like was it a huge piece of candy. He smelled so amazing. Every time I stepped into his room my nostrils naturally found their way to his linen, where the delicious scent of sweet and sour fogged my mind with ecstasy and opened my heart. And it made me want him so much. Yes.. perhaps it even made me fall in love with him. It’s definitely safe to say that I couldn’t get enough of his natural essence.”


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The 8 Female Orgasms: #5 The Anal Orgasm


Wanna know them all? Start here for a better overview.

Anal orgasm?! Omg, is this even possible? I know it’s a bit of a delicate topic for some of you, but definitely worth looking into, I promise!

The Christian influence on Western society has left some nasty effects on how we view sex today. Especially as anal sex was a dangerous sin in the past and it has remained  hush-hush till today. In many traditions it’s still a no-go. Although the anus has been a part of our sexual instinct since humankind has existed.

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Channel Your Chi: 6 Chinese Medicine Fertility Tips


Sexual energy is pure, creative life force. It has the potential to create not only deep, raw feelings, intense physical connection, and inspired expressions of creativity, but also a human being! If you’re trying to enhance your fertility to conceive, learning how to awaken and nourish this life-affirming energy this will make all the difference in achieving your goal.

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Organic Dildos: All about Healthy and Ecofriendly Masturbation (2016 Edition)


I know what you are thinking. Organic dildos? Is she now discussing which vegetables are best suited for our lovely vaginas? Not exactly.

What I wanted to put out there is some awareness-raising regarding dildos. When we make love to ourselves, we want to treat our vaginas the best way we can, right? Ever thought about the toxins which might be inside your pink Chinese-made dildo?

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Hooray Boobies! The Benefits of Falling in Love With Your Breasts


This podcast episode is dedicated to all my beautiful female listeners and to all open minded breast owners out there.

Let me ask you a question: Do you hooray your boobs?

Breasts are the manifestation of our heart; our nipples are the very first thing that enter a room. They radiate and absorb. They are an organ of pleasure. They feed babies and nourish souls. They come in all kinds of fun shapes, sizes and colors.  Read more

The 8 Female Orgasms: #4 Cervical Orgasm


Did you know? Orgasms can transport you to another state of consciousness! An awe-like state that almost makes you forget yourself! We are talking about cervical orgasm.

The cervix lies within. It’s the deep center of the vagina or what Kim Anami calls the “gateway of life”. In Taoist reflexology the cervix is the heart point in women. When this center is being massaged we often react through emotions. Some women feel pain, and have the need to cry, some women feel joy and have the need to laugh. Whatever lies in our heart, it wants to express itself.

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Shame – The Scary but Rewarding Journey of Working Through Your Shadows


Do you love uncomfortable moments so that you can work through your shit? Most people don’t. By the way, shit here stands for: emotional shadow, shame, fear, guilt, worries and other scary emotions.

I know a few folks (but in my experience that’s a rare species :-)) who love, seek or even put themselves voluntarily into uncomfortable situations so that they can work through their own stuff quicker.

How do you love and accept yourself and let go of shame and guilt?

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