Ladies, have you ever had one of those soul shaking, hands curling up like t-rex arms, reality-shifting orgasms? The kind where your vision turns into a solid color, you might be screaming, you’re not sure, or you might be entirely silent. Where you see yourself, truly, clearly. Or you see God. And you realize it’s one and the same. The everything and the nothing.
If so, Im willing to bet that when this happened, it didn’t happen in the snap of the fingers. It probably took some time to build up.
Clitoral orgasms can happen quickly, but to have a vaginal orgasm, women generally need 20+ minutes of stimulation. And to get to the level of soul shaking orgasms, women need a long time, perhaps 45 minutes or more.