Sluts Allowed: Meet the 4 Female Erotic Archetypes

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Just if you are wondering: we are not talking (primarily) about striptease here. This show is about a conscious sexuality dance practice called Dancing Eros. The wonderful creatress Vanessa Florence gives us a deep insight into the 4 archetypes, that play a big role in the Dancing Eros practice. With sassy fun and laughter we dive into the world of the maiden, the wild women, the priestess and the slut. Yep, sluts are allowed too!

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Squirting – 5 Myths Finally Busted

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Most people know about squirting or female ejaculation from porn and adult magazines. There is still a lot of woowoo and shame projected on to what I consider to be magical sexual expression. Squirting is the explulsion of fluid by the Skene’s gland, through and around the female urethra during or before an orgasm. More mystical sources say it’s a divine liquid that in i’ts essence manifests pure sexual energy.

The latest scientific research says, that it’s “involuntary pee”. Which of course increases the shame dimension that keeps women away from exploring this phenomenon.

That’s why I decided to create a video for you to finally bust the 5 myths for you and create a safe and clear pathway to this sexy, splashy and liberating squirting fun.

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What a Sexual Shaman Can Teach Us About the Moment of Orgasm

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I bow in awe to the world of Conscious Sexuality, because it’s a wonderful explorative space with amazing people in it. Every day I dig deeper and deeper, meeting new courageous souls. That’s how I met a true pioneer who has been on this path for decades. Namely Kenneth Ray Stubbs, Ph.D.

His fascinating story starts in a semi-rural area of the American South; when he moved to San Fransisco after the days of the hippies Kenneth started to embrace his sexuality as a new way for him to transform as a human. He started teaching and studying Erotic Massage as one of the first on the scene; he produced “The Sacred Prostitute” documentary and today is a so-called Sexual Shaman and Crystal Whisperer.

Ray has been studying sexual empowerment and sexual energies for so many years – that’s why he is the perfect guest for my podcast.

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3 Ways to Deal With Shame (No More Ignoring!)

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Do you know the feeling when you are holding back from true connection? This can be in daily-life communication with your friends, in meeting strangers, and also in the bedroom with your partner. The reason is always the same: Shame.

The beautiful city of Barcelona, and talking to many “strangers” inspired me to talk more about this subject. It’s crucial that we don’t continue to ignore this sensation. I’d like to encourage you shedding light on it and deal with shame, with the help of those three steps.

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Guys: Cure “Death Grip” and Increase Sensitivity by Avoiding these 5 Masturbation Mistakes

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Mariah approached me asking if I could write a bit of a more extensive answer to the issue of death grip – because it is asked for again and again. Here’s my experience from a man’s perspective:

Fact is: many men lose sensitivity in their penis. Which sadly enough seems a bit like a cure for the other most famous mens’ syndrome: premature ejaculation (PE). But guys, let’s not accept this as a solution at all. We do want to last long, but we also do want to have the full pleasure while we’re lasting amazingly long, don’t we? Would be a fun killer if not.

This desensitization, also called “death grip” sneaks in when you’re on your own, masturbating. That’s why the following tips unavoidably enter your bedroom. Or are we talking about the desk?

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The One Thing You Need to Do Right Now to Un-Jealous Yourself


However we look at intimate relationships, jealousy is always one of the issues that everyone struggles with. We have all experienced feelings of intense jealousy, or suffered from someone else’s jealousy. If we had to believe what romantic movies and literature say, we would have to conclude that jealousy is almost a necessary ingredient of love. But that is not the case. In fact, as I can confirm from my personal experience, once we overcome jealousy we can access a richer, fuller and deeper reservoir of love than we ever thought possible.
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How to Give an Out-Of-This-World Lingam Massage

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Are you a lingam lover? I am. And I love to worship my lover’s wand of light aka his lingam (term for penis in the ancient Indian language). This article gives you a deep and eye-opening understanding, and practical tools on how to give an out-of-this-world lingam massage.
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Orgasmic Birth – Why It Matters How We Are Born

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Have you ever asked your mum how you were born? I mean, how exactly…

“It matters how we are born,” says my dear friend Nina Winner, “because”, she elaborates, “birth is part of our sexuality”.

Nina, is a birth coach and mama mentor in Austria. She guides mums towards their strength – she calls it the lion mama strength.

She believes that the time we spend within our mother’s womb, right up to the moment of our birth and to the first years of being on this earth, are crucial for our actions, our level of love and how much we can enjoy life.

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